Question from Dana: I’m a 36-year-old woman and I just started to be sexually active over the past few years. My question is how do I know that I’m having an orgasm? And I want to get a wand but don’t know what kind to get. What’s your favorite wand?

Aiden Answers: Congratulations!  I’m so very happy for you!  Orgasms are complex creatures.  Here’s a pretty good article that includes some facts about the nitty-gritty details: Women’s Health Article.  I love the Divinity Wand, specifically because there is a large variance in settings on the wheel.  To vary the type of your orgasm, I also suggest a wand topper that is insertable.  You have so many days, hours, and years of sexual experimenting ahead of you!  Let me know if you have any other questions!  I’d love to help you more along your journey.