Welcome to a new season!
On this month’s episode of XR University, we have guest Bella Rolland join us to talk about female pleasure and help bridge the gap… the orgasm gap!
Have you ever wondered if you’re pleasing your partner? If you’re a woman, does it seem difficult to orgasm? Well you aren’t alone! Nearly 37% of women don’t orgasm from heteronormative sex whereas only 3% of men don’t orgasm when they have sex. This huge difference in pleasure during sex doesn’t stop there. Not only are most women missing out on orgasms from sex with their male partners, they also are experiencing pain during sex!
Studies have shown that the majority of women orgasm from clitoral or external stimulation, or a combination of penetrative and external stimulation. That leaves the quick, penetrative sex that many heterosexual couples engage in lacking in a lot of stimulation for women. Ian Rath, Bella Rolland and Aiden Starr help teach our viewers how to please your partner or yourself with new toys and techniques. Talk to your partner, be open to their desires, and learn that it can take more than just physical stimulation to get them there.
In the second half (for those watching, not just listening on a podcast), Bella shares her “spot” which is also not penetrative but external. We get to see how she cums and learn a lot about the sensitivity of the clit! Bella even gives you a full and informative look at her vulva with a sexy anatomy lesson so you can visually see where every sensitive zone is!
To read more about the Orgasm Gap, check out our companion piece on Extreme Restraints.
Socialize: Ian Rath (Twitter), Aiden Starr (Twitter), Bella Rolland (Twitter)