Consent and Trust
by Aiden Starr - CONSENT or the question thereof is easily the most fascinating and important part of BDSM play for me. Any brute can force themselves upon another. Procuring consent for the same acts is an art form that requires honing one’s skill similar to a trained musician or painter.
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World-famous adult performer Aiden Starr and BDSM expert Ian Rath want to teach you a lesson! Welcome to XRUniversity, a free-of-charge BDSM tutorial workshop, where our hosts are joined each month by one of your favorite adult stars to discuss and demonstrate a different element of kink! Both beginners and enthusiasts will discover sensual scenes that offer tips to develop their skills, as well as advice on how to initiate and build trust, have honest dialogue with your partner, and most importantly, how to be safe. Topics include Squirting, Anal Sex, FemDom and more. Get whipped into shape and enjoy your training with XRUniversity’s enormous and informative variety of bondage education and Free BDSM videos!
BDSM Safety I.
Go slow with novices and first encounters to bondage. Be especially sensitive to your partner's emotional reactions, providing frequent gentle body contact, spoken encouragement and other reassurances.
BDSM Safety II.
Respect the limits of your partner at all times and use a bondage "safe word." Set up a safe word before you start to ensure that each participant can end his/her participation with a word or gesture.
BDSM Safety III.
Bondage should always be safe, sane and consensual between the partners. As long as you keep some basic safety precautions in mind you'll be able to enjoy bondage play without hurting anyone.
