Question from Doug: Hey Aiden – love your site. It has helped my girlfriend and I so much move into our bondage play. Here’s a question. We’re hoping to move into some forced orgasm play, and loved your episode recently. However, we tried wands before, and she just doesn’t like them. Is there something else you can suggest?

Aiden Answers: How does she cum? Is it clitorally? If so, the wand might be over stimulating her. Just ease up on it. If she’s a g-spot or anal girl, you’ll need to pay more attention to those spots.  Get a wand topper with several options, try keeping it on low, try inserting it.  Make her masturbate for you, watch how she does it and copy the style. Let me know how it goes!