Question from Jack: How do I get my mistress to get rougher with me? I want her to punish me harder and longer. What she does doesn’t hurt me? Can I get her to punch and kick me in the balls? When she does punish me she lectures more than punishing. I really want her to start hurting me. Also, how do I get her to humiliate me and call me names more? Can you help?

Aiden Answers: Negotiation is the cornerstone of all D/s relationships.  Have you politely asked to be given more corporal punishment?  The best way to achieve this goal is to politely ask.