Question from Thomas: Hi Aiden, how do I get my girlfriend to like bondage?  I have been wanting her to tie me up and spank me and flog me and then fuck me with a really big dildo. Please let me know if you have some good advice. Thank you 🙂

Aiden Answers: Good morning sweet sub! Direct communication is always the best approach when speaking with a lover about desires. Take it slow. Be loving, caring and considerate of their emotions. Consider this, have you asked what your partner wants? Proving yourself to be a giving and loving partner should be higher on your list than your own priorities. Be connective. The rest will come in time.