Question from William: My wife and I have both chosen to live the roles of BDSM not only in the bedroom but full-time in public as well. We are beginner’s and are committed 100%. What is the best way to learn how to train for this as to get the best experience possible?

Aiden Answers: Congratulations on your bravery and commitment to yourself and your partner! I applaud you! I spend every day learning about BDSM. I’m always looking for books, blogs, tutorials, and resources.  Perhaps you should assign one day a week to your exploration of BDSM.  For example, every Sunday you could consume or explore a new resource ie a new video, a class, etc.  Ian Rath and I are committed to providing the best possible tutorials on our XRU site.  There are lots of other great sites and resources out there.  Join Fetlife.  Go to a munch!  Get involved with a contribute to your local BDSM community. I’d love for you to write me periodically and tell me about your progress!